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Dr Laura Berman Intimate Basics Dilator Set


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  1. 4 graduating sized vaginal dilators, in smooth plastic, with a separate handle for ease of use.
  2. Rehabilitate pelvic floor muscles at your own pace
  3. For treating Vaginismus, recovery from vaginal surgery, vaginal agenesis etc
  4. Optional vibrating ability helps to relax muscles
  5. Includes optional removable soft ribbed sleeve

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Rehabilitate and retrain your pelvic floor muscles with this unique vaginal dilator set designed by sexual health expert Dr Laura Berman.

Vaginismus is a common condition where the pelvic floor muscles around the vagina automatically tighten when there is an attempt to penetrate it. The condition can severely affect a woman’s happiness and confidence and her relationship with her partner, and can make gynaecological examinations and even tampon insertion impossible. Vaginismus can occur as a result of a traumatic sexual experience, but it can also occur after vaginal surgery or radiotherapy as the tissue becomes scarred and tight.

Dr Laura Berman Sex & Relationships expertSexual therapy can help a woman to overcome Vaginismus. It’s necessary to retrain and relax the muscles in order for the body to become familiar with the sensation of something inserted in the vagina. This unique vaginal dilator set, designed in conjunction with sexual therapist Dr Laura Berman, allows you to do exactly that.

This set has four vaginal dilators ranging from 2.75 inches (7cm) to 4.75 inches (12cm) long to allow you to gradually increase the size you are able to insert as your pelvic floor muscles become more relaxed and your vagina more familiar with penetration. The unique thing about this set compared to other vaginal dilator sets is that it has a vibrating handle. You select the vaginal dilator size you wish to use, attach it to the handle and the gentle vibrations help your muscles to relax and prevent them from going into spasm when the vaginal dilator penetrates. The vibration function on this vaginal dilator set helps you relax and helps with easier insertion - again, like the sleeve it is optional if you choose to use this option.

Also included in the Dr Laura Berman Vaginal Dilator Set is a textured silicone sleeve. This, when combined with vibration, helps to stimulate circulation in the pelvic floor area helping the pelvic floor muscles relax, making vaginal penetration easier and more comfortable. Plus, it can help to increase sensation and help a woman to begin enjoying sexual stimulation which is a hugely important aspect of the recovery process.

Dr Laura Berman is a leading sex therapist with 20 years of experience working with women and couples to improve their sex lives and relationship. Having completed a Masters Degree in clinical social work and a health education Doctorate specialising in human sexuality from New York University, Dr Laura Berman is now an assistant clinical professor at the Feinberg School of Medicine. She has written several books about sexual health and psychology, and makes regular television appearances in the USA to share her expertise.

Dr Laura Berman’s research and knowledge has helped her to develop a vaginal dilator set that works on increasing sensation as well as simply retraining the pelvic floor muscles to enable vaginal penetration like most normal vaginal dilator sets do. Vaginismus is a difficult condition to overcome, but this vibrating vaginal dilator set can give a women the opportunity to explore different sensations and enjoy intimacy once again.

Dr Laura Berman Intimate Basics Dilator Set - Instructions for using the Berman Dilator set:

Getting Ready: Set aside about 20 minutes for your home treatment, twice a day when you won’t be interrupted and can have privacy in your bedroom or place of your choice.

  1. If possible, take a warm bath for at least 10 minutes before you use your dilator - this will help to relax the muscles.  Although this is not absolutely necessary, the warm water helps to soften the skin, improve circulation and relax the muscles. 
  2. Wash your vaginal dilator with warm water and mild soap then dry it off.
  3. Apply a small amount of water-based lubricant, such as Yes Organic lubricant, or KE Gel onto the tip of your vaginal dilator.
  4. Start with the smallest circumference vaginal dilator and slowly work your way up to the largest attachment (this process could take weeks or months).

Using the Dilator: in a semi-reclining position lie on your back and bend your legs (the same position for a smear or pelvic exam). Place the lubricated dilator against your skin below your urethra (where your urine leaves your body), right in your vagina. If you have a small vaginal opening, place the dilator in the opening. You can find the spot by slowly and gently sliding the tip of the dilator in the area right under your urethra.

Using pressure, hold the dilator in place for about 20 minutes. Push the dilator in at an angle in the direction of your lower back or tail bone and simply hold it in place. Do NOT use an in and out motion. You should feel a lot of pressure but not pain. If you have pain, you may be pushing your dilator too hard. If you don’t feel anything, you may not be using enough pressure with the dilator. After a few tries, it will feel like the right amount of pressure. Start off slowly and it may take several sessions to get comfortable with one size dilator.

If you wish, once you are comfortable you can turn on the vibration option to increase blood flow which will lead to more lubrication and pelvic floor muscle relaxation.

After you have used your Dilator: Keep it in a safe place where you will remember to find. Although your dilator does NOT need to be sterilised, it’s a good idea to get in the habit of rinsing it off with mild soap and water and drying it before you put it away.

StressNoMore praises the inclusion of the nubby sleeve in this dilator set - and here's why!

Many of you might be wondering why the nubby sleeve has been included in this dilator set by Dr Laura Berman. Top Clinicians say that many women do not always want to have a totally smooth plastic dilator, they need to feel the unevenness of the nubby surface. Some women can become frightened of a dilator that is not smooth, so it all forms part of the comprehensive, well thought out therapy path devised by Dr Laura Berman, ensuring all women get the dilator that is right for them to enable them to progress at a speed that suits them best.

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SKU / Product Code 92251
Brand Dr Laura Berman
Recommended For Vaginismus, Post pelvic surgery, radiation therapy, sex therapy, vaginal agenesis and sexual dysfunction.
Included Contents 1 x vibrating handle, 4 x interchangeable dilators, 1 x silicone nubby sleeve
Material ABS (massager, vaginal dilator sleeves) TPR (universal vaginal dilator sleeve)
Power 2 x AA batteries (not included)
Weight (kg) 0.2560
Size 4.5”x 1.5”/ 11.5 cm x 3.75 cm (universal sleeve) 3.5”x .75”/ 9 cm x 2 cm (small sleeve) 4.5”x 1”/ 11.5 cm x 2.5 cm (medium sleeve) 6.75”x 1.5”/ 17.25 cm x 3.75 cm (large sleeve)
Waterproof Yes, can be used in water
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novelty toy Review by not for medical use
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very disappionted i suffer with endometriosis and vaginismus and is not for medical use. paid for postage will happily return and try a different product in the good faith that it will actually be a medical product.

Dear Customer,
This is a US product, and whilst it says it is not for medical use, this is a way of bypassing the highly litigious US legal system. It is a highly respected brand both in the US and here in the UK, but a medical classification would make the product prohibitive cost wise. However, EU/UK items have a different classification compared to the US. I quite understand that you would prefer to purchase an item that is a medical grade device so please look at Femmax Dilators or Vagiwell both of these are classed as medical devices.
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Tash Customer Care Team (Posted on 21 September 2016)
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Very Effective Review by Karma
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I started off with the small and am now using the large one lubricated with some Yes oil lubricant. It has worked my vagina is stretched and ready to move on to the real thing without soreness or pain. Easy to wash, better inserted warm so can be warmed on the radiator. Never bothered with the vibration bit but suppose would be relaxing. (Posted on 21 May 2016)
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(1 of 1 people found this review helpful)
Menopause problems Review by Daisy
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This product does what it says, I have not been using it for very long yet but I am
hopeful that this is going to help with extremely painful sex due to menopause.
So far so good, easy to use, clean etc. (Posted on 27 November 2015)
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(2 of 2 people found this review helpful)
Too big Review by GIrlZ64
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Far too big and chunky for me, I have just had 6 months of radiotherapy on and off and this is just too much, should have got something smaller, threw them out, not something i could free cycle.. (Posted on 14 October 2015)
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Very good. Review by Anon
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I would have liked a really small one in this range, it is OK, but a much smaller one, pencil size for those of us starting out would have suited me better. It is a nice range and it has helped me following diagnosis of vaginal agenesis. (Posted on 9 February 2015)
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Product packaged as novelty product Review by diclairet
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Very disappointed. Almost returned product as it is packaged as a novelty product and sex toy rather than being used for a medical condition with all the benefits described on the webpage for this product

Dear Customer,
Yes we agree, this US product is sold 'as a novelty'. This is because it is a US product and it does not make any medical claims, therefore it is not sold as a medical device which under US and UK law would require special medical certification from the owners. Dr Laura Berman works within the pelvic health sector and sexual health area and the product reflects this. The reason we are so keen to continue to feature this product even though it states 'novelty use' is purely because of the vibration element, there is lots of evidence to show that the use of vibration helps to relax painfully tight muscles, the vibration is not used as sexual stimulation, but to benefit the improvement of blood flow, relax tight muscles and promote faster healing.There is no other dilator set that we know in the world that offers this function.
If you are not happy with this product please do return it and we will happily replace it with another product of your choice.
Assuring you of our best attention at all times,
Customer Care Team
. (Posted on 20 November 2014)
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(8 of 9 people found this review helpful)
Helps a lot if like me you have painful intercourse Review by mixa
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My doctor suggest me to buy the dilators to massage inside my vagina.I had an operation and I had a big scar inside and during intercourse I use to feel lots of pain and burning sensation.With the dilator I massage the scar to make it smooth and the pain eased a lot.I definitely recommend this dilator. (Posted on 14 June 2014)
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(4 of 5 people found this review helpful)
Dr Berman Dilators review Review by Mrs J Harding, Wilts
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I have undergone radiotherapy for the last few months, and the scarring means I have to use a vaginal dilator. I have used those with and without handles, and for me I slightly prefer the ones with the handle, I find them more comfortable and easier to use. Always use a hormone-free lubricant (I use Sylk - it was recommended to me by a Macmillan Nurse) and go slowly.
These dilators I think are good because they also vibrate, I found this helped to relax my muscles and ease the tension - I read something on-line by Dr Berman about the positive effects of using vibration together with the dilator and it has had results for me.. (Posted on 19 July 2013)
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(16 of 16 people found this review helpful)

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Product Questions

Hiya Dr
I have many questions?
1/what can I wash the diltors with?
2/can the one sleeve provided be used with all the different sizes of dilators? If so , does it strech to accomodate the other sizes?
3/how and with what can i wash the silicone sleeve?
4/ how long is the treatment for and what is the rate of sucess?
re: Dr Laura Berman Intimate Basics Dilator Set Can you please tell me why this has a vibrating function? Surely this then just becomes a sex toy/vibrator rather than a medical vaginal dilator?
How long do you use each sleeve to start with